Before we dive in, here are a few things I always keep in mind when it comes to styling myself for events.
What is the vibe you want? Pinterest is your friend for this. Gather a few images to reference, and then shop your closet (and your friends).
If I have to buy something new…I always think about how I’ll wear it afterward. I never buy something just for one-time use. Shoes, bags, and chic jewelry excite me way more than a dress does. This is why I tend to use events as an excuse to buy a new pair of shoes or a bag that I know I’ll rewear for dinners or everyday outings. A new dress? I will buy one once every few years.
This is also why I’m all about amazing black or solid coloured pieces in satins, silks, sequins…they’re the perfect canvas for creativity and bold accessories. This is a way of thinking I have leaned on for as long as I can remember.
I love adding a personal touch to my outfits. I rely on my gold collar necklace to elevate a look, it allows me to dress up my pieces in a more formal way. And I rely on my onyx donut ring or a bold arm or earring cuff (asymmetry is always interesting!) as a way to add my signature when I am dressing up. It’s important to have that stamp of personal style so you know how to feel yourself when you are dressing up in a way that doesn’t feel as natural to you.
And my mom always taught me this. If you find a dress you love at a great price and it looks good on you, buy it! It’s always harder to find the perfect dress when you actually need one!
Ok here goes…links if you want to shop, and vibes if you want direction!
