intention vs trying hard, knowing your anchor, some links

and two very reliable outfits I wear all the time

hi everyone! it’s been longer than usual. I have alot of thoughts to catch up on so bare with me.

reliable outfit #1 …there is really nothing more essential than a black mid-sleeve tee and a pair of loose, straight black jeans.

my tee, my jeans are old from the row, my bag, my flats are mostly sold out but try these or these repettos!

This is an outfit I’ve worn more times than I can count and I never tire of it. I reach for it when I want to be intentional about what I’m wearing, without looking like I’ve tried too hard. I love it because it doesn’t ask for attention, yet somehow always gets me compliments. And it always makes me feel polished. Not in the pristine, perfect sense. But polished in the sense that your choices look deliberate.

And I want my choices to look deliberate. I am ok with that!

some wants of mine. All amazing pieces. That I would wear all the time. And never tired of. (Which is why some of these wants have become purchases)

I just ordered these boots from a new brand I discovered Herbert Levine, the designer Trevor has designed shoes for the row and khaite. Love the silhouette of these.